The elaboration of relationship connections

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  • My Friend! What are your criteria in calling someone friend?

    Let’s talk about it… The dictionary define friend as “one attached to another by affection or esteem; one that is not hostile; a favored companion.” Although this is how friend is defined in the dictionary, each person appears to have their own criteria in defining a friend. Let’s take a look at how Patricia and…

  • It is said that we marry a person family when we marry the person. Why do we?

    Should this rule only apply to a person who has a minor child? Let’s talk about it… Karen and Joe were dating for three years when Joe asked her to marry him. Karen does not have any kids of her own. However, Karen was fully aware that Joe was a male hoer when she met…

  • Why do some people believe their mate or partner is their property?

    Which in-turn causes them to believe they have the right to possess and control their mate. Let’s talk about it… It is common for people to label their property by putting a logo or name or both on it. People who label their property want others to know they hold ownership. Therefore, anyone other than…

  • Why are relationships difficult to sustain?

    Do relationships fail because of one or all the following: ego, notoriety, outside influencers, misunderstanding, lies, deception, lack of respect and love, infidelity, finances, as well as poor communication? If this the case, what does it take to keep a relationship together on one accord in harmony? Let’s talk about it… Relationship is the state…

  • As a person of faith, why can’t I counsel with a psychologist?

    Big Mama always said people of faith do not need to counsel with a psychologist; all they need is Jesus. Big Mama said, according to the preacher, if you go see a psychologist; you do not have faith. Where in the bible does it confirm what Big Mama said? Let’s talk about it… Many people…

  • Believing Without Doubt

    How do one continued to believe without doubt when one’s patience is constantly tested and faith is constantly challenge? Let’s talk about it… In Hebrews 11:1 of the bible, faith is defined as “the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Faith is defined in two parts. The first part is…

  • I can’t stand the rain against my window bringing back sweet memories.

    Let’s talk about it… “It’s Friday night, I do not have to get up early tomorrow; so, what is this girl to do?”  “Mom, are you talking to yourself again asked Barbie, Ruthie’s daughter.” “I can always count on me to reply with wisdom. So, why not talk to myself?” replied Ruthie. Barbie giggle as…

  • The Ultimate Betrayal; kissed by a wolf in sheep clothing.

    Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss. Do we really know people who is close to us? Let’s talk about it… Many times, standing on the outside looking in at someone else’s life; it’s easy to recognize when they have a wolf in sheep clothing around them. The wolf can be a close friend or a…

  • In teaching a son to become a man, what is the woman’s role?

    Because the narrative has changed from one generation to next, it’s apparent that men are no longer teaching their sons how to become a gentleman; therefore, the concept of becoming a man has changed. Because of this narrative changed, mothers are stepping in to teach their sons how to respect and treat a woman. Let’s…

  •  Accountability is a great start to healing.

    When the actions of a person separate them from their family, total healing comes when that person takes accountability for their actions. Let’s talk about it… Bobby has always been an unsettled kid growing up. At a young age he was abandon by his birth mother because she allowed her demons to take president over…